- Carol Maybury
A focus on prevention
I wrote the blog below back in January 2019, ten years cancer free. I am now coming up to 12 years cancer free and the information below is just as relevant today, so I thought I might re-post for those who needed a little inspiration on where to start. With everything going on in the world at the moment, it is so important if you are feeling overwhelmed by all the negative things around you, YOU NEED TO TURN THE NEWS OFF!!!! Very important for healing and refilling your tank with positive things, like getting outside in nature, sunshine, fresh air, walking, singing or whatever makes you feel good, this will be good for your mental clarity and can help you feel better. Remember it takes the mind, the body and the spirit to heal, I believe they are all as important as the other.
Sometimes just sitting, walking and being in nature, thinking about absolutely nothing, is the key to refresh your vibrant self and remember YOU are the key to healing and happiness, it is NOT anyone else's job to make you happy, no matter what is going on in the world. If you are struggling to feel better or dont know where to start, there are lots of tips below and please don't forget to reach out to someone to assist, if you need help getting there.
ENJOY THE FLASH BACK FROM JANUARY 2019 - Ma xx
I have just past my ten year anniversary from my cancer diagnosis YIPEE, HOORAY, YOU BEAUTY and all that jazz. So I thought I would write a little about my story and what I did to help my body heal, this is only just touching the tip of the iceberg, I did and tried so much.
It seems so long ago from my diagnosis of invasive breast cancer until now being cancer free, that I have to really stop and think about that day. That day ten years ago which has changed my life forever and believe it or not, for the better.
I certainly try not to dwell on that day but I do try and live my life now the best way I know how with the knowledge I now have. I dont live everyday thinking about the cancer coming back and I certainly dont live in fear of it any more.
What cancer did for me was made me wake up to the realisation I couldn't keep going on the way I was. I was running on empty and had been for some time. Our bodies have a weird way of letting us know when something is wrong or when it needs help
I realise now how important the mind, body and spirit connection is. Stress can play havoc on the immune system so we need to make sure all these three are all catered for, each of them are as important as the other.
Lesson no.1. DO NOT IGNORE WHAT YOUR BODY IS TRYING TO TELL YOU "oops, that could have been something I did for a long time
There are always subtle signs, cancer or chronic disease doesn't just happen, it takes a lot of years for a palpable tumour to be felt, in that time your body gives you signs to try and get you to fix underlying issues that are going on. I got the signs alright but as we are human and certainly are not perfect, I went along pushing my best foot forward, as you do and kept going, ignoring those well meaning signs.
I want to pass on some knowledge that I was lucky to learn which has helped me. You dont have to take it, you can read this blog and say "whatever" or "wow" but ultimately the choice is yours and what you do with it is your own personal business. No judgement either way.
Try these for prevention one step at a time
MAKE YOURSELF NUMBER ONE
Making yourself number one does not mean you are egocentric or that you do not love those around you, but trust me, in order to be there and help those you love, you need to make sure you take time out for yourself as well. Another one of my biggest mistakes was to think I had to fix everyone and everything. I have come to realise I cant fix the world and sometimes some things as hard as it is, are someone else's lesson to learn and not mine.
My favourite things to do are:
Being with my family and friends
Spending time alone
Reading Positive affirmations
Reading a good book
Having a massage
Sitting on my verandah and sipping on a cup of herbal tea
Whatever floats your boat !! But make YOU a priority every now and then and stop to fill up your tank and learn how to say NO sometimes
Jess and I 2009
One of the very few photos I have with my favourite wig after one chemo took my hair and my weight plummeted to 44kgs, I looked like a P.O.W I refused any other conventional treatment after that.
I was a little vain about my hair!!!!!! Cancer can certainly swipe the vanity right out of you.